The Truth, the Way, and the Light...Without Fear

Intro Teaser

I grew up in a Christian household — but I found God outside its walls. And what I found made me question whether love and fear can truly live in the same place.

The Love I Was Told vs. The Love I Felt

From an early age, I saw what others didn’t.

While the church preached love, I experienced something different:

• Superficial love

• Damaged love

• Obligational love

• Fear-based love

Yet deep inside, I knew there was a love beyond all of that — pure, unconditional, alive. I wanted it for myself.

So I started asking questions.

Dreams, Nature, and the Love They Feared

I had dreams that showed me things before they happened — birth and death dreams that stitched me into a deep knowing.

I felt love in nature, not in church. And eventually, I found that love reflected back to me in Hecate, not in the version of Jesus I was handed.

John 14:6 — "I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.

"1 John 4:16 — "God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them."

If God is love, then fear of hell is not love. Fear and love cannot coexist in the same space.

The Verses No One Talks About

The Bible also says:

• “Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord…’ and I will say, ‘I never knew you.’” — Matthew 7:22–23

• “To another gifts of healing… to another prophecy… to another distinguishing between spirits.” — 1 Corinthians 12:4–11

So when did this end? When did people decide they could judge who God works through? Were these words only meant for believers in that time?

I wasn’t a damned child. I was an enlightened one. But instead of being nurtured, my gifts were treated like threats.

When Jesus Came Through Another Door

The church told me I needed Jesus. They didn’t realize — He had already come to me. Just not in the way they expected.

He came through Hecate.

Not as a god to worship, but as Mother, Love, Teacher. She arrived when I was rejected by the world, showing me:

• I am not separate from the Whole.

• Everything is energy.

• I am an expression of Love itself.

Two Faces of the Same Whole

What I’ve come to understand is that Jesus and Hecate are not separate forces at odds with each other. They are aspects of the same Whole — expressions of the same Love.

One came to me through the language of my upbringing, the other through the language of my soul. They do not compete; they complement.

Hecate is not worshiped — she is revered as a greater aspect of our own sovereignty. She is of us, not separate from us. Just as the aspects of our Lord go by many names, so too do these faces of Love reveal themselves in different forms.

We are all one. Together, they remind me that Love is bigger than the walls we build around it.

The Contradiction We Can’t Ignore

This isn’t about worrying for anyone’s soul. It’s about calling out the contradiction:

The same faith that says God is Love often teaches fear as its foundation. The same scripture that says perfect love casts out fear is too often weaponized to control.

My Closing Question

Are you living in love — the kind without fear, shame, or conditions? Or are you living in a system that tells you love must be earned?

I know what love without fear feels like. I found it while being condemned by the very ones who claimed to guard it.

Christianity at its core is not wrong. God is Love. But if the Truth, the Way, and the Light are to survive in the heart of the church…Fear has to go.

For anyone untangling fear from faith — this isn’t a debate. It’s an invitation to see love without conditions.