Calling The Dead Forward

So last night, while I was bottling my snow water and making labels,

I ran across my old Death Walking serum.

I’ve been thinking about it for days — that quiet nudge you get when something wants your attention again. So I picked it up, opened it to take a little whiff…and immediately realized:

Oh.

This needs to be remade.

Badly.

The scent had faded, the energy felt flat,

and I could tell instantly that the blend wasn’t carrying the same charge it once did when I was using it for mediumship.

Standing there with snow water bottles, labels,

and a too-old serum, I remembered exactly why I created the oil in the first place

and how deeply it ties into my mediumship.

So today, let’s talk about it.

What this oil does, how it prepares the space, and why mediumship requires structure, not chaos.

THE MEDIUMSHIP OIL

A Tool for Opening the Room — Not Creating the Gift

Let’s start with the most important truth:

No oil makes you psychic.

No herb grants mediumship.

No blend replaces a gift.

Mediumship is built into your energy system.

A tool can’t give the gift —but it can help you step into the state where the gift works clearly, safely, and without distortion.

My oil doesn’t summon spirits.

It doesn’t cross them.

It doesn’t force communication.

What it does is help you:

• open the room

• regulate your energy

• soften your field

• ground your awareness

• and create a clean environment for communication

It’s a companion, not a shortcut.

A support, not a substitute.

WHAT’S INSIDE THE OIL (ENERGETIC PURPOSE ONLY)

Every ingredient carries a signature that supports mediumship:

Rose — Opens the heart and brings unconditional love and trust.

Lavender — Softens the mind into peaceful, receptive awareness.

Poppy Seed — Splits the veil just enough for presence to step forward.

Amber — Awakens memory and deepens the energetic imprint.

Vanilla — Brings emotional grace and gentleness.

Clear Quartz — Protects, amplifies, and clarifies both medium and message.

The full recipe is reserved for members, but the purpose of the blend is something I want to share:

This oil prepares the space — not the soul.

WHY I APPLY IT 30 MINUTES BEFORE A SESSION

Let’s be honest: we all run on caffeine, stress, lack of sleep, and emotional chaos.

You cannot drop into mediumship while your nervous system is still vibrating on “survive.”

That’s why I apply the oil 30 minutes before a reading.

Not because the oil needs time to work —because I do.

It tells my body:

“Slow down.

Come back into your center.

We’re shifting states.”

It helps me:

• step out of everyday noise

• regulate overstimulation

• drop into grounded awareness

• open without becoming porous

• prepare for the density of mediumship

  
  

  The oil doesn’t force mediumship.

  It prepares the medium.

THE OIL PREPARES THE SPIRIT, TOO

Mediumship isn’t only about the medium.

The spirit has to adjust as well.

Most spirits are new to communicating this way.

They aren’t practiced.

They don’t understand how to step into a medium’s field cleanly.

To them, entering a medium’s awareness can feel like stepping into a bright room after being in a dim one.

The oil creates a soft and steady energetic gradient —a gentle approach —so the spirit can enter without overwhelm.

Herbs and oils carry energy.

Energy is language.

And the dead instinctively understand it.

The oil tells them:

“This space is safe.

Come forward slowly.

You will not be overwhelmed.”

The oil prepares both sides of the conversation.

THE CHAIR: STRUCTURING THE ENCOUNTER

When I call a spirit forward, I either imagine a chair or place one physically in front of me.

The chair gives the spirit:

• a place to land

• a point of focus

• a way to arrive fully

And it gives me grounding and clarity.

It’s not symbolic.

It’s functional.

The chair is the first anchor of the room I open.

THE QUARTZ SPHERE: BRINGING LIGHT TO THE ROOM

The quartz sphere isn’t decoration —it’s part of the architecture.

It:

• amplifies spiritual presence

• brightens the field

• prevents emotional bleed-through

• clarifies communication

• stabilizes the room

• blocks lingering energy

It’s not a portal —it’s a lamp.

WHAT MEDIUMSHIP FEELS LIKE (FOR ME)

Mediumship isn’t like talking to guides.

With guides, you raise your frequency.

With the dead, you lower it.

Mediumship feels like presence, not imagination.

It’s the sensation of someone stepping into the room —your awareness shifts before your eyes do.

For me, it begins with:

• A tingle on the left side of my head

My “incoming” signal.

• They enter from the front-left

Never from behind.

Never unannounced.

This is my boundary — and they respect it.

From there, they’ll:

• stand

• pace

• or sit in the chair offered

Then the memories come

Not as movies — as echoes.

I see:

• flashes

• objects

• colors

• emotions

• fragments

They rarely make sense to me, but almost always make sense to the family.

Their voice sounds like me — but isn’t me

Same internal channel,

different cadence,

different emotional temperature.

Mediumship is translation between two layers of existence.

THE THRESHOLD KEEPER (MY DEATH WALKER)

Before I accepted his presence, spirits stumbled into my field at random.

When I consciously allowed him in, he began doing what he was created to:

Ushering.

Directing.

Organizing the threshold.

Ensuring that the right spirit steps forward.

He is not my guide.

He does not channel through me.

He does not lead me.

He is the threshold keeper for the spirits responding to my call.

He stands at the doorway (front-left, always), keeping the encounter intentional, clear, and sovereign.

⚠️ IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTE

Because this oil opens energetic perception, here is the responsible and honest truth:

Do NOT drive for at least 3 hours after using it.

Especially if you are already spiritually sensitive.

This oil lowers the veil and expands awareness.

Driving in that state is dangerous.

This oil is external use only.

Do NOT ingest it.

Poppy will absolutely mess you up if you’re not careful.

Respect the plant.

Respect the work.

GROUNDING BACK INTO YOUR BODY

If you feel floaty or halfway in another realm, ground before doing anything physical.

The fastest ways:

• Eat an apple

• Eat dark chocolate

• Smoke a cigarette (yes, it works 😆)

• Drink room-temperature water

Personally? I do chocolate + a cigarette, then drive. 😆And it works every time.

But always —ground first.

FINAL WORDS

If you’ve read this far and something inside you whispers, “this feels familiar, ”trust that.

You’re not haunted.

You’re not imagining it.

You’re not broken.

You’re a medium.

You’re not alone.

You may just need guidance —and a tool like this oil to help anchor your gifts.

👉 Members, head to your private page for the full recipe.